A Guide to Bridal Shower Invitation Wording (with Examples!)

A guest holding a beautiful bridal shower invitation with a colorful floral boarder.

A guest holding a beautiful bridal shower invitation with a colorful floral boarder via Studio Creative Things.

Are you hosting a bridal shower? How exciting! Whether you’re planning a dreamy at-home bridal shower or searching for the most unique bridal shower venue, there’s much fun to be had from researching and selecting the perfect bridal shower invitation wording!

Plus, you get to plan an event that will bring a smile to the face of your favorite bride-to-be and enjoyed by all her friends and family.

The first step: crafting the perfect bridal shower invitation. It’s arguably the most important step because it’s the first glimpse guests will get into the party. Not only should it reflect your theme, but it needs to say all the right things.

When you’re working so hard to plan the shower, you want everything to be perfect. Finding the right words can be a challenge. But we’re here to help!

Here’s everything you need to know about finding the best bridal shower invitation wording, plus some examples you can copy/paste right onto your invites! 

What Are Bridal Shower Invitations?

Bridal shower invitations are cards or digital files sent to guests to let them know they are invited to the bridal shower. They contain all the info guests need to know about the event, as well as how to RSVP. 

Send out bridal shower invitations around four to six weeks before the event date. This gives guests enough time to check their schedules for conflicts and pencil in your bride-to-be’s big day! 

Bridal Shower Invitation Formatting

Formatting bridal shower invitation wording correctly is crucial. You’ll need to include all the information your guests need to decide whether or not they can make it.

Of course, you’ll need to include the bride’s name in a prominent position and a cute saying that ties into the bridal shower theme.  Add the date, time, and venue information as well. If there is a dress code, include that well so guests can prepare properly. 

Let everyone know how they can RSVP to the event. You can add a QR code, your email, or phone number here. Specify how you want them to respond. It should be clear whether they should text or call you.

If your bride is religious, consider leaving a space for a small bridal shower devotion her or her family may appreciate seeing on the invitation beforehand.

You should also be clear about what bridal shower registry items would be ideal. Lots of bridal showers focus on a specific gift type.

For instance, some bridal showers use a “stock the bar” theme, requesting guests to bring a bottle of alcohol. Other ideas include a honeymoon fund, a lingerie party, or a stock-the-pantry party. 

Make sure the font you use stands out from the background. Your invitation should be colorful, but easy to read.  

Once you know what you need to include, design the invitation. You can easily design one on Canva or purchase a template from Etsy.

Print them on cardstock and place them in envelopes if you are mailing invitations, or send a digital copy via email or text! It’s that easy. 

Wording Examples for Bridal Shower Invitations

A pastel pink and green bridal shower invitation with a margarita glass

A pastel pink and green bridal shower invitation with a margarita glass courtesy of LoveStoryCoDesign on Etsy

Funny and Playful Wording

If you’re throwing a casual event, or have a bride with a humorous sensibility, you can get really creative with your invitation wording. Look for lots of puns, casual words, and onomatopoeias to bring life to your invitations. 

  • Celebrate this “Miss” becoming a “Mrs”!

  • [Bride’s name] is getting hitched! 

  • Taco ‘bout love! [Bride’s name]’s getting married! 

  • You should come to this thing we’re planning for [Bride’s name]. 

  • Margaritas before marriage at [Bride’s name]’s bridal shower. 

  • Here comes the bride….al shower! 

  • Nacho average bridal shower!

  • This bride is a vibe! Let’s celebrate her upcoming union. 

  • Soon to be “whisked” away! Help [bride’s name] celebrate her bridal shower! 

  • She’s been scooped up! Join us for a bridal shower as cool as ice cream. 

  • “Fizz! Pop! Clink! Swirl! Help us celebrate the shower of our favorite girl.” 

  • Need an excuse for a girls’ day out? Come to [bride’s name]’s bridal shower! 

  • Join [bride’s name] for her last girls’ fling before the ring as she celebrates her shower. 

  • Something blue before “I Do,” all she needs at her bridal shower is you! 

Casual and Informal

If your event is more casual, but you want to stay on the serious side, be straightforward. You can still use fun word play, but get to the point right away! 

  • Brunch with the Bride as she celebrates her shower. 

  • Let’s shower [Bride’s name] with love! 

  • Charcuterie with the bride-to-be! Please attend [bride’s name]’s shower! 

  • You’re invited to a brunch and bubbly bridal shower! 

  • [bride’s name] is getting hitched! Come shower her with love. 

  • She’s getting married! Join us to honor the bride-to-be. 

  • [bride’s name]’s wedding day is near! Let’s get together to bring her cheer. 

  • Join us for a bridal shower in celebration of [bride’s name]’s wedding day.

  • Help us send [bride’s name] to married life with everything she needs to make a house a home. 

  • Happy wife, happy life! Shower [bride’s name] with love, support, and gifts! 

  • [bride’s name] is  glowing! Brighten her day by attending her bridal shower on [event date]. 

Formal Wording

Traditional, formal gatherings require more elevated language. Use formal terms and respectful language to convey the tone of the event. 

  • [Host’s name] requests your presence at [bride’s name]’s bridal shower. 

  • Please join us in celebrating [Bride’s name]’s bridal shower on [date of event].

  • You’re invited to a bridal shower honoring [bride’s name].

  • Join us for a bridal brunch at [venue name] for [bride’s name].

  • You are cordially invited to celebrate [bride’s name]’s bridal shower on [date of event].

  • Kindly join us for a bridal shower honoring [bride’s name].

  • Celebrate [bride’s name] before she ties the knot. 

  • [Host’s name] is delighted to invite you to the wedding shower of [bride’s name]. 

  • Raise a glass and toast our favorite bride to be as we honor her with a bridal shower. 

  • No bride is more iconic than she- let’s toast [bride’s name] with afternoon tea. 

  • Your presence is requested to celebrate our blushing bride. 

  • She’s getting married! Come to the bridal shower of [bride’s name] and [groom’s name]. 

 
white "Save the Date" cards with gold writing.

A stack of white "Save the Date" cards with gold writing via Pinterest.

 

Seasonal & Themed Wording

Incorporating your event theme or even the season is a great way to engage guests right away and let them know what they can expect from your event.

Pull inspiration from games, TV shows, and the current season to make your invitation relevant. 

  • She found her lobster! Pivot your calendar and come celebrate [bride’s name]’s bridal shower! 

  • [Bride’s name] found her main squeeze! 

  • Mama mia! The dancing queen found her man! 

  • Join us by the pool for a bridal shower! 

  • It’s a his & hers wedding shower for [bride’s name] and [groom’s name].

  • All we need is love! Join us for a groovy bridal shower. 

  • Join us at [bride name]’s Mean Girls-themed bridal shower. 

  • The one with [bride’s name]’s bridal shower. 

  • We’re hosting a flower power bridal shower for [bride’s name]!

  • You’re invited to a wildflower bridal shower for [bride’s name]! 

  • She’s in her bride era! Come celebrate the bridal shower of [bride’s name]. 

  • Roll out the red carpet and celebrate [bride’s name]’s bridal shower in style. 

  • She’s under his spell! You’re invited to celebrate a magical bridal shower with [bride’s name] and all her special muggles. 

  • Warm up by the fire at [bride’s name]’s winter wonderland shower. 

  • [Bride’s name] found her person! You’re invited to share in her joy at her bridal shower on [event date]. 

Sweet and Romantic Wording

  • Once in a while, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairytale. We’re celebrating [bride’s name] with a shower. 

  • Love is brewing! Please join us as we celebrate the future bride. 

  • She found her Romeo! Come shower her with love and well-wishes. 

  • [Bride’s name] will be enchanted to meet you at her bridal shower on [date here]. 

  • She’s getting married! You’re invited to celebrate [bride’s name]’s bridal shower. 

  • Shower the bride with love as two hearts become one. 

  • Her wedding is on the way! Let’s get [bride’s name] ready for the special day. 

  • Love is in the air at [bride’s name]’s shower! 

  • Come celebrate the bridal shower of the soon-to-be Mrs! 

  • Please join us in celebrating the fairy tale love story of [bride’s name]. 

  • First comes love, then comes marriage- but before the wedding day, an iconic bridal shower! 

  • Wildly in love: come honor the flourishing love of [bride’s name] and [groom’s name]. 

  • Sandy toes and salty kisses: please join us in honoring our bride to be with a beach-side bridal shower! 

Wrapping Up Your Bridal Shower Invitations

It can be hard to find the right words. But once you know the vibe you’re trying to achieve, you’ll find the right words, phrases, and sayings to make your bridal shower invitations shine! 

Take your time and channel your bridal shower theme to craft the perfect bridal shower invitation. Remember to always consider your guest of honor and choose colors, wording, and themes that will make her smile.

You can also add special touches, like embossing, charms, and fun textures! 

When in doubt, ask! If it’s a surprise bridal shower, ask those closest to her. You can also do some digging on social media. That way, you’ll be sure to create the perfect bridal shower invitation!


 

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