Some couples like to spend their bachelor and bachelorette parties apart, with each of their own friends. But lots of couples share a friend group.

And some couples don't have gendered bridal parties. Maybe the bride has a man of honor. Or maybe the groom has a best woman. If you'd rather spend time together, you can have a joint bachelor bachelorette party, and invite all of your friends.

Your bridal party can accessorize their dresses with jewelry they already own, or you can choose certain pieces to match the style or look of your wedding day. You can choose your bridesmaid jewelry based on their dresses, hairstyles or any look that you like. You can find wedding jewelry for your bridesmaid in every style and price range.

If you’re planning a bridal shower, there’s a lot to keep track of. Especially if you’re going to DIY the food. The best way to get organized is with a good list. If you don’t have one already, here’s a set of lists to get you started.