Some couples like to spend their bachelor and bachelorette parties apart, with each of their own friends. But lots of couples share a friend group.

And some couples don't have gendered bridal parties. Maybe the bride has a man of honor. Or maybe the groom has a best woman. If you'd rather spend time together, you can have a joint bachelor bachelorette party, and invite all of your friends.

When you’re planning a co-ed, or couples wedding shower, you might find that there’s a lot of different names for it. Usually, a bridal shower is the traditional kind, with women only, held in honor of the bride. A wedding shower is when all sexes are included and the party is held in honor of the couple.

Once your wedding date starts getting closer, you’ll want to start thinking about thank you gifts for your bridal party. Your bridesmaids, maid of honor or matron of honor have been helping you plan and get ready. They’ve been buying clothes and accessories. Booking time off. Plus hosting and attending all your wedding events. It’s time to choose a thank you gift and show them how much you appreciate all that they’re doing for you.